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Agony of A Man

On an evening I was walking through my street, I saw a man sitting alone and was very sad. I went to him and asked the well being of him. In reply, he murmured, I don’t want to live any more; but even couldn’t die also. How much games I had to play in this small innings of my life. The sunset of my life is near, not because of I am sickness or I am mentally ill; but because of my family.

I was living happily with my wife and three children. I never thought of this even in my dreams. The family, who showed me a lot of affection during the tenure of my job, will change completely after my retirement. All three of my children are still graduates. While maintaining this standard of education, they behave like wild animals. Their condition has become so high that my position is not more than a dishwasher.

My wife is illiterate, then she has the right to praise me. She never missed any opportunity to say abusive words to me. My voice, which sounded like a cuckoo to her, today sounds like a torn bamboo. Had to take my name once, with great admiration, but today it has been replaced by dirty abuses. No one has time nor words for me. Even today, it is the same relationship, whenever there is a need for money, it is said that I did not repay on borrowed time.

This is not the first deception in my life, even before my family looted me. Is it all in my luck, at that time only money was looted, which was earned again, I had time and courage for it too? But now self-esteem has been auctioned and this too at the hands of those whom I cannot imagine, but see the irony of time and my luck, what can I do other than endure all this. Now till the last breath, I shall have to live chokingly and suffer all the pain of life.

These are the same family members who used to remind me many times a day that they are waiting for me, the reason behind this is that if they show their color at that time their brilliant life would be affected. Despite doing so much, I am reminded that I have done nothing.

After hearing all this, I could not utter a single word. I just put my hand on his shoulder and moved forward wondering why we are all so selfish. Why do we forget that the man we neglect is also part of the family, whether he did anything or not? Read More…

Importance of Guru

Everyone needs a guide for their life, who should inspire us to follow the good path with a good rite. Our first teachers are parents who bring us into this world. Whose education works everywhere in our life and guides our life.Everyone needs a guide for their life, who should inspire us to follow the good path with a good rite. Our first teachers are parents who bring us into this world. Whose education works everywhere in our life and guides our life.

The Guru will not only help you in your spiritual journey, but will also guide you in your household life, he will give you intuition powers to decide what is good for your life and what is bad. He will give you powers to decide which path will benefit your soul and will guide you which path to avoid.

The word “Guru” is a Sanskrit word. “A person imparting spiritual and worldly knowledge is called a Guru.” After parents, it is the Guru who helps us to move towards positivity without any discrimination and selflessness and keeps us from negativity. Our poets and litterateurs have told about the glory of Guru in our lives in different languages.

Guru’s place in Sanskrit language is also mentioned above Bhagavan, because interviewing Bhagavan is possible only through Guru. It is also said in Sanskrit,

“Gururbrahma Gruurvishnu: Gururdevo Maheshwara. Guru: Sakshat parbrahma Tasmai Shri Gurve Namah.”

That is to say, “Guru is Lord Brahma, Guru is Lord Vishnu and Guru is Lord Mahesh (Shankar), Guru is a true Parabrahma, that’s why I bow to my Guru.”

“Vinayphalam Shushrusha Guru Shushrusha film Shrutham Gyanam. Gyanasya falam virti, virtifalam chaashrav nirodh: “

That is, “the fruit of humility is seva, the fruit of guru seva is knowledge, the fruit of knowledge is virakti (stability), and the fruit of stability is ashrava nirodha (liberation of bondage and salvation).”

Dugdhen Dhenu: Kusmen Valli Sheelan Bharatya Kamalen Toyam. Guru Vina Bhati Na Chaiv shishya: Shamen Vidya Nagari Janen.

That is, “Just like a cow without milk, a vine without a flower, a wife without a character, a water without a lotus, a knowledge without peace, and a city without people do not adorn, likewise a Guru does not grace a disciple.” Read More…

The Test of Friendship

Today was a festival. This evening was very delightful. Roads were decorated with full of lights and flowers, everything was visible as far as our eyes could see. Cleanliness in the market was also worth seeing. Even once I was also shocked, I had not come to another city by mistake. But the place was somewhat recognizable. Even the garbage place of the crossroads was seemed to be clean, but failed to hide its familiar smell. Which was a witnessed that I am in the city only.

A lot of time had passed since the sun set, so people were running towards their homes. The market was crowded and children were busy playing, which was causing obstruction to traffic. Hence the market was very active but traffic was sluggish. It took an hour to reach home. All the family members were found outside the house, it seemed that they were waiting for me.

I was very happy to see the family and I was surprised on the other side as well.

I asked eagerly, “How all of you are here at the moment, I hadn’t sent any message!”

He told, “Keshav, the brother of the neighborhood, came to give wishes and gifts. He was missing you very much, he would not have reached home yet. We were about to return but saw you and stayed.

On hearing the name of Keshav, my mind got lost in the memories of the past. We were always together as a child. Food was also distributed and used to be eaten. Keshav could not read due to financial condition and working in the fields had become an integral part of his life. A year had passed, I had not even met him, and even today he was living in the same tight condition.

I quickly went inside the house and opened the sweets given by Keshav and I was shaken to the inside. Where would he have brought such expensive sweets and that much, whether he has left anything in his house or not. With this thought, I immediately got ready and took the path to Keshav’s house.

Keshav blushed at seeing me, he was sitting outside the house looking at the sky. He asked me to sit and himself gone inside the house to get water. I followed him too. As soon as he went inside the house, he told his wife, Deepak has come, keep the children inside. He does not know about our plight, he will be sad. After so many days he has come home, today’s festival should not go in vain. Read More…

Citrullus Colocynthis (Garmunda)

Citrullus colocynthis, which has many common names including colocynth, bitter apple, bitter cucumber, desert gourd, sodom vine or wild gourd. It is a desert fruit and is mainly found in the Mediterranean basin and Asia, especially in countries such as Turkey. It resembles a common watermelon vine, but its fruits are bitter as well as harsh.

It is a wild fruit and in India it is found in abundance in South Haryana as well as Rajasthan. The native name of this fruit is Garmunda, which is dominated by its medicinal properties. It has been used equally for both humans and animals. Ripe fruits are dried and stored and grinded and fed when needed. Usually it is not cultivated, it grows automatically and its most favorable period for the growth and flourishing is during summer, which coincides with the rainy season.

Garmunda has been widely used in traditional medicine for centuries. In traditional veterinary medicine, colocynth has been used to treat skin eruptions in camels.  It is also used in urinary diseases and ascites. Its leaves are similar to watermelon and the flowers are yellow. The fruit is smooth, and extremely bitter to taste.

Recently, an investigator from the Central University of Haryana has claimed that just four days of syrup made from wild fruit “Garmunda” can lead to a complete discharge of the disease of sugar. He told that he has prepared this syrup after long research. It has been used on many people. Read More…

When Habits Becomes Identity – 2

The teacher explained the man a lot, but the man was not ready to understand. In the end the teacher had to accept his defeat and accept the man’s offer. The teacher asked the man to come after ten days. That man was not happy, he would pass by the school everyday and would be happy that my donkey would also return to me as a man. Similarly, ten days have passed.

Finally, the day arrived when his donkey was about to come in front of him as a man. He arrives at the school wondering how he will treat her, how she will treat him. He even brought fresh grass for his beloved donkey that if he had forgotten, he would miss seeing the grass.

In the same confusion, he reached out to the teacher and asked about his donkey. Sir, did my donkey become a man? Can i meet him, where is he, please tell me soon? The teacher asked him to be patient, and told him, “Your donkey was not a normal donkey, it was very intelligent, I made him not only a man by my intelligence, but also a teacher.” Now he is in the next class, and is teaching, you can meet him.

“The man went to the next class and he called the teacher, as usual he called his donkey. The teacher could not understand anything and came out of the classroom. The teacher asked the man to come there, but the man thought he could not recognize me, so he took the grass out of his bundle and put it in the teacher’s mouth and lovingly turned his hand over his head and said , How many years have we been together and you have forgotten me.

The teacher was very angry at this, he called the man very bad and gave him a kick, asked him to leave. The man was not prepared for this amazing incident and fell to the earth. He got up and went back to the teacher to whom he had handed his donkey. The teacher asked him about the meeting, then the person thanked him for his act and said, “No doubt, you made him a man but he still hasn’t given up the kicking habit.” Read More…

When Habits Becomes Identity – 1

Once upon a time, a man lived in a small village. He was very innocent. He was unskilled and had few donkeys. His profession was transportation of goods with the help of his donkeys. He was also very unlucky and even after several years of marriage he has no children. He lived in a mourning. One day as he was passing through school, he heard the teacher’s shout at his student, “In such a time I would have made a donkey a man.”

On hearing this, he was very happy. He ran to his house and told the story to his wife. He told her how the teacher can be helpful in getting our happiness back. Her wife said to him that this is impossible, but the man was not agreed, saying that,”I heard that with my own ears.”  You must have faith on the teacher, he is a wise man and educated also. He is respected by all, he can’t speaks a lie. It is possible, that’s why he had spoken this.

He gave a lot of examples and eventually, his wife had to agree to do whatever. The man was very happy that now with the help of the teacher, happiness will also come in his house. The next morning he went to school with his sweetest donkey and said to the teacher, “Sir, I am an ordinary man, and I do not have any child, please help me and make this donkey a man, I shall be very thankful to you for your noble act; because of you, there would be showers of happiness on my house too.”

The teacher was speechless after hearing his words. The teacher said, “How I can do this.” Then the man told the story of the previous day.” Read More…

Vijai Dashmi/ Dussehra

The festivals celebrated in India give the message of the victory of good over evil in one way or the other but the festival which is known for this message is Dussehra. Exactly twenty days before Diwali. Dussehra is one of the major festivals of Hindus. This festival tells the story of Lord Shri Rama, who, after 9 days of continuous war in Lanka, killed Ahkari Ravana and freed Mother Sita from her captivity.

On this day, Mother Durga also killed Mahishasura, hence it is also celebrated as Vijayadashami and mother Durga is also worshiped. It is believed that Lord Rama also invoked the power by worshiping Mother Durga, after examining Lord Rama, one of the lotus flowers kept for worship disappeared. Since Shri Ram was called Rajivayanan i.e. the lotus with eyes, he decided to offer one of his eyes to the mother as soon as he started removing his eyes, the Goddess appeared pleased and gave him the boon of victory.

It is believed that Lord Rama killed Ravana on the day of Dashami. This festival of Lord Rama’s victory over Ravana and Mata Durga over Mahishasura is celebrated all over the country as the victory of good over evil and religion over unrighteousness. Different styles of celebrating it have also evolved in different parts of the country. Dussehra of Kullu is very famous all over the country, Durga Puja is also celebrated on a large scale in many states including West Bengal, Tripura.

Dussehra is considered to be the biggest symbol on the caste of good over evil. Navratri Dussehra is the main festival of Hinduism. This festival is celebrated as the victory of good over evil and victory of truth over untruth. Every year this festival is celebrated on the Dashami date of Ashwin month Shukla Paksha. There is a tradition throughout the country to blow effigies of Ravana on the day of Vijayadashami.

On this day, Maa Durga and Lord Rama, both should be worshipped. This will destroy all obstacles and you will get victory in life. Worshiping weapons on this day is very beneficial. Arms are worshiped on the day of Dussehra, on this day both weapons and scripture have special significance in the Sanatan tradition. Arms are used in a religious way to protect and self-protect the scriptures. Read More…

Shard Navratra 20- Day- 9. Siddhidatri

The ninth power of Maa Durga is named Siddhidatri. She is going to give all kinds of siddis. Maa Siddhidatri is able to provide all the Siddhas to devotees and seekers. According to Devi Purana, he achieved these achievements only from his kripa. Due to his compassion, half of Lord Shiva’s body was made of Goddess. That is why he became famous as Ardhanarishwar in the world. Mother Siddhidatri is of four arms. The lion is his conveyance. They are also offered on lotus flowers. His right hand has a circle in the lower hand, mace in the upper hand and a lotus flower in the upper hand and a lotus flower in the upper hand. Navratri-pooja is performed on the day of Navami. On this day, all attainment of a spiritual healer is done with classical method and with full devotion. Nothing in the world is possible for him.

Mother Siddhidatri is the last incarnation of the new Durga. The worshipers worship the other eight goddesses in a ritualistic manner and worship them on the ninth day. After completing the worship of these Mother Siddhidatri, all kinds of cosmic and supernatural wishes of the devotees and seekers are fulfilled. But after the blessings of Siddhidatri Ma, there is no remaining desire of the devotee, which he wants to fulfill.

He rises above all worldly desires, needs and mentally wandering in the divine loco of Maa Bhagwati, while enjoying her grace, the subject becomes zero. After getting this position, he does not have any desire for any other Vastu. In order to achieve this harmony of the feet of the mother, we must worship them continuously. Maa Bhagwati’s remembrance, meditation, worship are going to lead us to the real ultimate peaceful nectar by realizing the impermanence of this world. Read More…

Shard Navratra 20 – Day- 8. Mahagauri

The eighth power of Maa Durga is named Mahagauri. Their color is fully noticed. It is also likened to conch, moon and kunda flowers. All their clothing and jewelry is also white. They have four arms. They ride bulls. His upper right hand is in abhaya mudra and lower hand has trident. The top left hand is Damru and the lower hand is in Vara mudra.

She is sitting on a bull and is the most calm of all of Maa Durga’s avatars. She symbolizes purity, serenity and tranquility. A lot of devotees consider this an auspicious day and worship their tools. The significance behind this is that Maa Durga’s weapons are worshipped as symbols of female strength. It is believed that Goddess Mahagauri can fulfil all the desires of her devotees. If you worship her, you can be relived from all the sufferings of life.

His previously accumulated sins are also destroyed. Sin will never come in the future, it will never be sad. He possesses all types of holy and inexhaustible virtues. Maa Mahagauri’s attention to all-round welfare is remembrance, worship and worship for the devotees. We should always take care of them, by their grace, supernatural siddhis are attained. They definitely alleviate the sufferings of devotees. Therefore, we should make every effort to find shelter at their feet, their glory has been richly described in the Puranas. They inspire human beings towards the truth and destroy the discrete. Read More…

Shard Navratra 20 – Day- 7. Kalratri

Kalratri form of Durga Maa is worshiped on the seventh day of Navratri. Mother Durga’s seventh form is that of Mother Kalratri Devi. The seventh day of worship of Goddess Durga is also very important during the Navratri days. They are also called auspicious because of always giving auspicious results. It is said that by worshiping Maa Kalratri, Kaal is destroyed.

Navratri seventh day observes the worship of Goddess Kalaratri as well as Goddess Saraswati. This day people also arrange the Utsava Puja and the worship of nine planet. Maa Kalaratri is considered to be the most ferocious avatar of NavDurga and is known for destroying ignorance and removing darkness from the universe. This form of mother is considered a symbol of valor and courage. It is believed that with the grace of Maa Kalratri, the devotee is always fear-free. He has no fear of fire, water, enemies etc.

This incarnation is depicted as a destructive form of the goddess. She can be seen riding a dark black ass. She is dark black in color and has four hands. The position of his hands is in Abhay and Varada mudra and she holds the sword and iron hook in his left hands. It is said that she licked the blood of the demon Blood Seed, who had the ability to create more demons from his own blood. Due to the powers she possesses, she is also called Goddess Shubhankari.

According to the legend, the demons Shumbha-Nishumbha and Raktabija together attacked Devaloka, worried that all the gods went to Shiva. Shiva asks Goddess Parvati to slay the demons and protect her devotees, thus, Parvati assumed the form of Durga Devi and killed Shumbha-Nishumbha. But as soon as Durga killed Raktabeej, the blood coming out of her body produced millions of Raktabhis. Seeing this, Durga ji called Kalratri. Subsequently, when Durga killed Raktabeej, Kalratri drank all his blood and that wicked came to an end. Read More…

Shard Navratra –Day -6. Katyayani

The sixth form of Maa Durga is named Katyayani. The story of his name being Katyayani is as follows – There was a famous Maharishi named Kat, whose son a sage was named Katya. The world famous Maharishi Katyayan was born in the tribe of these katyas. He did very hard penance of Bhagwati Para Amba for years. He wished that Maa Bhagwati was born as a daughter to his house. Mother Bhagwati accepted his prayer.

After some time, when the tyranny of the demon Mahishasura greatly increased on the earth, then Lord Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh, after giving their share of power and generated a goddess for the destruction of Mahishasura. Maharishi Katyayan first worshiped him. For this reason, it was called Katyayani.

Mother Katyayani gives unfailfull results. He is revered as the presiding deity of Vrajmandal. His form is very grand and divine. Her colour is a bright phosphor like gold. She has four arms. Her right upper hand is in Abhayamudra and lower is in Vara mudra. The sword in the upper left hand and the lotus flower in the lower are embellished. The lion is her conveyance. Her form is worshiped on the sixth day of Durga Puja. On that day the mind of the seeker is located in the “command cycle”. This “command cycle” has a very important place in yoga practice. The mind of seeker situated in this chakra makes his own call at the feet of Maa Katyayani. Such devotees who surrender completely, they get the view of Maa Katyayani in a natural way.

By devotion and worship of Mother Katyayani, man gets all the results of meaning, religion, work, salvation very easily. He becomes supernatural fast and effective even while in the world. His diseases, grief, sorrow, fear etc. are completely destroyed. There is no easy way to worship the mother to eradicate the sins of births. Her worshiper is constantly in her custody and gets the highest position. Therefore, we should prepare for the worship of an all-loved mother and worship her. Read More…

Shard Navratra – Day- 5 Skandamata

The fifth form of Maa Durga is that of Skandamata. Being the mother of Lord Skanda, she is known as Skandmata. They are worshiped on the fifth day of Navratri-puja. On this day, the mind of the seeker is situated in the ‘pure’ cycle. Lord Skanda sits on his lap in child form. Skandamata has four arms. This right hand is holding Lord Skanda in the lap and the lotus flower in the other. Her one left arm is in boon form and the other arm also has lotus flower.

Its color is completely white. She sits on the lotus seat. For that reason, she is also known as Padmasana Devi. She rides a lion. After meditating on the mother, the seeker moves towards a pure conscious form. Her mind is completely engrossed as Padmasana Maa Skandamata, freed from all cosmic, worldly, mystic bonds. At this time, the seeker should move towards worship with full caution. He should continue on the path of cultivation while keeping all his meditations focused. Worshiping Maa Skandamata fulfills all the wishes of the devotee.

The seeker begins to experience ultimate peace and happiness in the world of death itself. For him, the gate of salvation is automatically accessible. Along with the worship of Skandmata, the worship of Skanda God is also done on its own. Only this goddess has this specialty, so the seeker should pay special attention to the worship of Skandamata.

Being the goddess presiding over the sun, their worshipers are endowed with supernatural aura. This supernatural halo is always a circular circumference. Therefore, we should try to come to the mother’s shelter by keeping the mind pure with concentration. There is no better way to relieve the sufferings of this terrible death world and make the path of salvation accessible. Read More…

Shard Navratra – Day- 4 Kushmanda

The fourth form of Maa Durga is named Kushmanda. Due to its light, light cube, which produces the universe, it has been named as Kushmanda Devi. When there was no existence of the universe, there was darkness all around, then these Goddesses created the universe with their humor. Only the ability and power to reside in Suryaloka is in him; his body’s radiance and brilliance are as resplendent and phosphor as that of the Sun.

She has eight arms. Hence, she is also known as Ashtabhuja Devi. His seven hands have Kamandalu, Dhanush, Arms, Lotus-flower, Amritpurna Kalash, Chakra and Mace respectively. In the eighth hands, there is a garland of chanting of all the siddhis and funds. The lion is his conveyance. On the fourth day of Navratri-worship, the form of Goddess Kushmanda is worshiped.

On this day, the mind of the seeker is situated in the ‘Anahata’ cycle. Therefore, on this day, one should be engaged in the work of worship, keeping in mind the nature of Goddess Kushmanda, a very holy and unshackled mind. All the diseases and mourning of the devotees are destroyed by worshiping Maa Kushmanda. Their devotion leads to increase in age, fame, strength and health. Maa Kushmanda is going to be delighted with even minimal service and devotion. If a human becomes his refuge with a genuine heart, then he can attain the ultimate position with great ease.

We need that according to the method described in the scriptures and Puranas, should to be continue on the path of worship of Goddess Durga. After moving a few steps on the path of devotion to the mother, the devotee seeker gets a subtle experience of his grace, this form makes the world very pleasant and easy for him. Worshiping the mother is the most accessible and credible way for a man to easily cross journey of this world. The worship of Maa Kushmanda is always going to get rid from various diseases and lead towards happiness, prosperity and progress. Therefore, those who want their cosmic-ecological advancement should always be ready in their worship. Read More…

Sharad Navratri – Day 3 Chandraghanta

The third power of Maa Durga is ‘Chandraghanta’. On the third day, in the worship of Navratri, this form is worshiped. This form of them is extremely peaceful and well-being. Her forehead has half-moon shaped like a bell, for this reason she is called Chandraghanta Devi. Their body color is bright like gold. He has ten hands. Her hands are decorated with weapons like swords and arrows. The lion is his conveyance. She always seems to be ready for war. The tyrannical demon-monster-demons are always shaken by her terrible sound.

The worship of the third day in Navratri Durga worship is of great importance. On this day, the seeker’s mind enters the ‘Manipur’ cycle. Due to the blessings of Mother Chandraghanta, supernatural things are seen. Divine fragrances are experienced and a wide variety of divine sounds are heard. These symptoms are for the seeker to be very careful. She quickly resolves the sufferings of the devotees. His vehicle is a lion, so his worshiper becomes as powerful and fearless as a lion.

We need to purify our mind, words and deeds in prescribed ways, we should be ready to worship Goddess Chandraghanta. By worshiping them we can easily get rid of all worldly sufferings. We should try to move towards cultivation keeping in mind their sacred deity. His focus is the ultimate benefactor and salvation both in and outside this world. Read More…

Sharad Navratri – Day 2 Brahmacharini

The second form of Mother Durga’s new power is that of Brahmacharini. Brahmacharini means follower of Tenacity. The form of Brahmacharini Devi is fully lit and very magnificent. The garland of chanting in her right hand “Kamandalu” remains in the left hand. In her former birth, she was born as a daughter of the Himalayas, and through Narada’s sermon, she did extremely difficult penance to get Lord Shankar as her husband. Due to this arduous austerity, he was named as Tapashcharini i.e. Brahmacharini.

She spent a thousand years eating only fruits and roots. Had to subsist for hundred years only on herbs. Having a hard fast for a few days, under the open sky, suffered terrible sufferings of rain and sunlight. Due to this difficult austerity of several thousand years, the body of the former birth of Brahmacharini Devi became completely degraded. She had become very agrarian. Her mother Maina became very sad to see her condition. He gave them a voice to overcome that difficult austerity, ‘Uma’, hey! Since then, one of the previous births of Goddess Brahmacharini was also named Uma.

Her austerity caused chaos in all three worlds. Gods, sages, determinative sages all started praising Brahmacharini Devi for this austerity as an unprecedented virtuous act. Finally, “Pitamah Brahmaji” addressed him through Oracle and said – ‘O Goddess! No one had done such a hard penance until today. Such austerity was possible with you only. Your supernatural act is being roundly appreciated. Your wish will be perfect you will get “Lord Chandramauli Shiv” as your husband. Now you overcome with penance and return home. Soon your father is coming to call you.

This second form of Goddess Durga is going to give eternal fruits to devotees and Siddhas. Their worship leads to the growth of human tenacity, sacrifice, quietness, virtue, self-control. Even in the difficult struggles of life, her mind does not deviate from the path of duty. By the grace of Goddess Brahmacharini, she attains perfection and victory everywhere. The same form is worshiped on the second day of Durga Puja. On this day, the mind of the seeker is situated in the ‘Swadhisthana’ cycle. A yogi with a mind situated in this chakra receives her grace and devotion. Read More…

Sharad Navratri 2020 -1. Shailputri

The Devi Mahatmya or Devi Mahatmyam or “The Glory of the Goddess” is a Hindu religious text describing the Goddess as the supreme power and creator of the universe. It is part of the Markandeya Purana. Devi Mahatmyam is also known as the “Durgā Saptashatī. The text arranged into 13 chapters. It is one of the most important texts of Shaktism tradition within Hinduism.

The nine-day festival of Sharad Navratri 2020 started today and is being celebrated across the country with full fervour and enthusiasm. The Sharad Navratri 2020 will conclude on October 25 with Ram Navmi. The Sharad Navratri is dedicated to Goddess Durga, who killed the demon king Mahishasura. This gives us a lesson about victory over evil. However, evil may remain for some time, but is ultimately defeated by good. It is also a big lesson for us to live life. It teaches us that everything in this world is mortal, we should not be enamored of anyone. Just as in the Shrimad Bhagwat Gita, the emphasis is on “doings” itself, not on the desire for its fruit, because man’s downfall starts from where the desires begin to happen.

The Devi Mahatmya presents the story of a majestic king, a businessman who were betrayed by their family, and a saint whose teachings take them beyond existential misery. In this Mahatmya, nine different forms of Goddess Durga are worshiped. Today is the first day of Navratri and “Goddess Shailputri” is worshiped on this day.

“Goddess Shailputri” is the first manifestation of Goddess Durga. She holds a Trishul in one hand and a lotus in the other and rides a bull called Nandi. Goddess Parvati was born as the daughter of Himalaya and in Sanskrit, Shail means the mountain, thus she is known as Shailputri. Goddess Shailputri wears white clothes. Read More…

Self Respect And You

We cannot always define love as a man and woman, children or one’s family. The most important kind of love, the most valuable love is self-love. I have always kept my feelings for everyone, my wife, my children, my family, even everyone’s reputation ahead of me, today this is the reason why I feel sorry and emptiness here. It is good to think of others, but not at the cost of your self-respect.

The word “self-respect” is made up of a combination of two words. Self and pride which means pride on ourselves. Negative people take this meaning with pride, but with its positive attitude then we will find that what we think is wrong. The truth is that self-respect has an important role in our success. If we recognize our own importance properly and take any action keeping in mind our self-esteem, then success will ours. It gives us a life full of happiness, satisfaction and purpose.

The more we think about ourselves, the more our self-esteem increases, because what we feel about ourselves does in our behavior. God has given the quality of self-respect to almost all living beings, we will know this only when we recognize ourselves and our inner potential. Hopefully! If we had taken care of our self-respect in time, today would not have seen this day. Read More…

Visit to My Native Place-2

We took National Highway 58 from Udaipur. The roads were smooth and with low traffic, so our journey was quite comfortable. We were moving on our way seeing the beauty of Rajasthan. Our journey to this point was very pleasant. After three hour of driving, we halted at Beawar, Rajasthan at a restaurant for our lunch. We were moving as per our time schedule. We had our lunch, had rest for a while and gone ahead on our way at 1500 hrs.

We had to speed up our vehicle as we wanted to cross Jaipur before sunset. We had crossed Ajmer and now the road had also widened. In this way we reached Jaipur at 1800 hrs. It took two hours to cross Jaipur till we reached National Highway 8. There was lots of work on roads was in progress in Jaipur. It took lots of time by diversion at various places. The situation of National Highway 8 was very bad and due to night there was low visibility, which caused slow movement of the vehicle.

My house is about 3 hours from Jaipur but due to road condition we could not cross Jaipur in three hours. I stayed at a hotel for dinner at 2100. We were quite late, usually it is more traffic at night, so we thought of resting for an hour. We left the hotel at 2230, traffic had also become moderate.

We came to Kotputli and left the National Highway 8 and moved on the National Highway 148B. Then via Behrod to Narnaul and reached my house at 0100 hrs. Thus, for the first time in my life, I had done this memorable journey of 19 hours in a day by my car. Read More…

Visit to My Native Place-1

The weather was really lovely when we woke up. It was four in the morning. Although, we had prepared it in advance, but some important stuff had to be taken for the day. It is a place where I was born, but for six years I had not been there even once. This lovely day was a great opportunity to go for a visit. It was 05.30 o’clock in the morning when I along with my family started our journey for my native place “Mahendragarh”, Haryana. We took national highway 48, after 25 kilometer we left it and diverted on Gujarat State Highway 154 towards “Modasa”.

The traffic on the road was very low as it was morning. When we reached Kapadganj, the sun had risen. The car was running at its full speed as if it was too early to reach home. There was a feeling of mild cold in the atmosphere, which was creating more thrill in the journey. Three hours had passed since we left our house and we had reached “Modasa,” Gujarat, parked the car and we made our first tea on our way.

After tea we had to speed up our journey as our destination was far away. After this we entered the border of Rajasthan via “Shyamalji” Gujarat. As soon as we enter Rajasthan, we start seeing mountain ranges. The winding path from the middle of the mountains, sometimes climbing up and down again, was a wonderful sight. The road up to Udaipur was similar where our second stop was going to be. Thus, while looking at the bird’s eye view of nature, we reached “Udaipur”, Rajasthan at 11.30 hrs.

Since this was my first road trip, we had to find the road ahead along with tea, as there were three routes to reach my destination. From here we decided to reach Jaipur after tea and go to Ajmer via Ajmer and we headed towards our destination. Read More…

Roots Will Always Be Tangled!

Those days I was working in Delhi. One day a friend of mine suddenly appeared in front of me and smiled. A woman was with him, I looked at her and thought that she could be his wife, I bowed in a greeting post and upon seeing her, barely a word of hello came out. It was just a coincidence or sometimes supports life; Stars and planets align to give you opportunities. Meeting someone after a long time, especially dear friend, is a tremendous feeling. This moment is as indifferent as it is enjoyable.

I get lost in those beautiful moments of the past where we first met. We were together in Nagpur, the orange city of Maharashtra in the nineties. His name was Mr. Sunil and belonged to a very good family. His father was employed in a high position. Sunil was very naughty in childhood and his habits were going against the dignity of his father. Therefore he was involved in this work. He was very extravagant, thus there was a lot of people around him.

We spent time with each other, united during a crisis, we also used to fight and then again get united. Life is never dull when you were with your friends. But once we explore different paths during higher education and career stages, we will definitely have to say goodbye to the friends, but their memories stay with us. When we get a chance of meeting an old friend after a long gap of many years, we will definitely feel ecstatic. Hugs and tears will speak more than words during such occasions. The joy we experience in our heart are almost inexplicable.

I was also in the same position; I was standing in front of them but my mind was at Nagpur enjoying those days, which we had lived years before. During this time Sunil had addressed me thrice but I was standing like a statue in front of them. This time he grabbed my hand and pushed me, I cautiously asked, “I am not dreaming.” This time he held my hand and pushed me, I cautiously asked, “I am not dreaming.” He said, “No, my friend, it is me.” I shocked, “How did this style change?” Then he pointed at his wife and told me, it’s all done by her. She has changed me a lot. Read More…

The Mother, My World!

Mother is one of the first indications of the sovereignty of God in our life. There is a heaven in mother’s feet. Mothers teach us to have confidence and belief in ourselves. Mothers knew from experience how important for people to believe in themselves in order for children to be whole, strong and grow with a healthy estimation of oneself. Motherhood changes everything.

The influence of a mother in the lives of her children is beyond calculation. For a woman, there is no other role in life that is more necessary than that of a mother. Her unconditional love and care means everything to us. She is the foundation of our development on which our whole life flows. We are proud of her and appreciate her tireless love and care.

You are the light of our life, in whose light our whole life is bright. You are the first ray of the morning, who holds the lamp of hope. Your lap gives us a lovely and pleasant shelter like the palace and gives us the joy of fullness in the world. In your love there is a continuous and steady flow like a river, and as deep as the ocean. My mother’s love is my own experience of my life. Today my mother is not with me, but mother’s ideals, her blessings and love always remain immortal. Read More…

Visit to a Hill Station-3

The popular Magnetic Hill of Ladakh is a unique hill where vehicles defy the force of gravity and move upwards on the hill when parked at the marked location. The hill lies at a distance of thirty kilometer from the town of Leh on the Leh-Kargil highway near Pathhar Sahib Gurudwara.

Gurdwara Pathar Sahib, is a beautiful Gurudwara sahib constructed in the memory of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, about twenty five miles away from Leh, on the Leh-Kargil road, 12000 ft above sea level. The Gurdwara was built in 1517 to commemorate the visit to the Ladakh region of Guru Nanak Dev ji, the founder Guru of the Sikh faith. You can see a large stone with the back of “Guru Nanak Dev Ji” and the footprint of the demon on its other side.

I was very excited to be on the highest highway of the world. Khardung La, also known as Khardzong La, is a high mountain pass in Ladakh region of Jammu and Kashmir, near Leh. It serves as the gateway to Shyok and Nubra Valley. Khardung La is popular as the highest motorable road in India at an elevation of 5602 metres.

The Shanti Stupa in Leh is a magnificent white-domed Buddhist monument located atop a steep hilltop at a dizzying height of 11,841 feet. It is a religious place for the Buddhists as it holds the relics of Buddha, consecrated by the 14th Dalai Lama. It is also popular amongst tourists as it offers a sweeping view of Leh and the nearby Changspa village.

Ladakh Festival, organised by the Tourism Department with the help of the locals, aims to promote tourism and the rich culture of the region.

This festival organised in September attracts thousands of tourists from across the globe. Various cultural programs are held such as folk dances, traditional music, Ladakhi food, handicraft products, archery competitions and polo matches. Mask dances are one of the highlights of the festival. This festival is a perfect opportunity for the tourists to discover the culture and lifestyle of the Ladakhi people. Read More…

Visit to a Hill Station-2

I was very eager to see and feel this environment from very closely; thus the next morning I moved along with Indus River, which was flowing by the side of the village. The Indus River is the backbone of Ladakh; historically and presently prominent places and Leh, Basgo and Tingmosgang are located close to the river. It is one of the largest rivers in the world in terms of annual flow. The river has historically been important to many cultures of the region.

I had visited Buddhist Monastery on my day first. This Monastery also called Spituk Gompa, is a Buddhist monastery located about 8 kilometers from Leh. One of the most dazzling monasteries in India, it houses one hundred monks and a giant statue of Goddess Kali. It is famous for its collection of Buddhist objects of antique arms, icon, ancient masks and numerous Thangka paintings.

I saw lots of “Panchakkies” first time in my life alongside of Indus River. There was less water in the river at this time; still flow was very high and its width was very vast.

I had seen apple garden there. These apples are different from Kashmiri apples. These were small and green in colour but very sweet to taste, just like the Ladakhi people. Read More…

How important is sense of human life in one’s life?

n this way, how important the feeling of human life is in everyone’s life depends on how his / her attitude is. There are some people who, despite the lack of money, lead an ideal life. The religion of humanity is considered the best religion. Therefore everyone should do human service.  

On the contrary, some people are of violent nature, they are late to see something, they break like an eagle. Some make a dent in their own house. The practice of single family in our society has started due to these people. Such creatures do not dare to do anything themselves, but seize the earnings of another sitting at home. Even they are not ashamed.

Swami Ramdev Ji Maharaj is an example of how important the spirit of human life is in life. He put everything in the service of humanity. Even raising the name of the institution, he gave it to the most respected sage Patanjali Maharaj. Whatever they are today could have been theirs but they did not do so. Still others remain behind them. Today such people should be encouraged so that those who serve humanity do not face any problem. Read More…

Visit to a Hill Station-1

Leh is well known for its winter season. It was cold here at this time. I stayed with my friend, who was residing at Spituk village, of Leh. I was just 7 kilometers from the city and 5 kilometers from the airport yet the only buildings in sight are the monasteries perched on the mountains that surrounds the area.

Spituk is a very small village, spread alongside of Indus River. People of there are very cheerful, helping in nature, honest and very hard working. Wheat was the main crop at that time and with this they started growing vegetables also. They had goats and sheep in the name of animal wealth. Apart from this, they had yaks which were used to plow the fields and carry the goods.

They were so friendly that on the very first day, I got introduced to dozens of people and we became friends. I had my lunch at the house of one of them and the dinner at another’s house. They called the boy “Jula” and the girls as “Julie”. Their salutation was also “Jule Ji”. One of them was always ready to turn me around. The ones I spent the most time with were Anchuk Dorje, Tsrinj Thapa, xiang Dorje. Read More…

Visit to a Hill Station

I had a great desire to go to Leh since childhood. There were many soldiers in our village, three-four of whom were in Leh. Everyone talked about them in my village. This used to increase my curiosity even more. I got this opportunity in September 1993.

Where there are so many high, snow-capped mountains, where there are circuitous paths to go, where it takes so long to reach, but that place will be no less beautiful and delightful than heaven. Because anyway the Himalayan mountains are world famous.

It was the day of 01 September 1993, in the morning, I started preparing to go to Leh. There was no end to my happiness because my childhood wish was going to be fulfilled. My flight was from Chandigarh. For this I caught a bus from my hometown Mahendragarh Haryana at 2100 am because my flight was at 0600 am the next day.

I reached Chandigarh at 0500 hrs in the morning at Airport. I checked in and boarded in the flight. It took off from Chandigarh at 0625 hrs and landed at Leh airport at 0715 hrs. Due to high altitude, it is medically advised to have 48 hrs rest. Read More…

New Generation and Technology

The old days are always remembered when we look at today’s generation. Technology is for our comfort, it does not mean that we should be slaves to technology. There are only a limited number of youth who use it, the rest of them are slaves of technology.

When we walk around, we find each one using mobile-connected headphones and they move around in such a way that they are the only ones in this universe and no one else. They have nothing to do with the traffic passing through the roads. Not only this, they have become so lazy that, they chat from one room to another in the same house, instead of talking face to face.

This increases communication gap, there is no social interaction, Today, we meet on social platforms, not face to face. In our early era, there were social gatherings, a time of family happiness, where all members of society or family sit together and exchange their thoughts, share experiences, mourning and happiness, today it has been replaced by social platform on internet. Read More…

Three Factors Can Change Life

Once upon a time there was a moneylender in a city. He was very soft-spoken and intelligent. He was highly praised throughout the city and he also helped people as much as he could. Once he fell very ill, he started feeling that death is near, so he called his son.

As much as moneylender was intelligent, his son was worthless and dull. The moneylender called him and said, “Son, now you have to handle this business.” I want to tell you some things, you remember these three things of mine. Firstly, go for business in the shade and come back in the shade. Only eat fresh food and always have sweet talks with everyone. The moneylender died as soon as he said this.

The moneylender’s son, obeying his father, got a palanquin to go in the shade and hired laborers to carry it. Arranged for a cook for fresh food who would walk with him all the time and talk sweetly to everyone. Thus the income went to the valley and the expenditure kept increasing. The moneylender’s son started living in worries. A few days later it became difficult to pay the salaries of the servants he had with him.

Business became a burden for him and his father’s advice seemed meaningless. Now he started staying at home. One day a monk came to his door, the moneylender’s son was lost in his thoughts. The monk called him out loud and asked him the reason for his trouble. The moneylender’s son told the monk in detail. The monk started laughing loudly after listening to him.

The monk said, “Son, your father has shown you the right path, you have made the wrong meaning, then why do you curse your father.” Your father told you to go and come back in the shade, he meant you go before sunrise and return after sunset and that’s shade of stars. His second point was, eating fresh food i.e. you must have daily earning for your food, and thirdly sweet talk, then his idea is also correct, because if there is no restraint on speech then how your business will grow.

The moneylender’s son took the steps of the monk, thanked him for his good advice and promised to follow the same things in the future. In this way he took care of his father’s business very well in a short time. Read More…

Fall, But Like Waterfall

The power and beauty of the waterfall always fascinate us. Waterfalls are one of those rare universal things that all humans love. The sound and feel of moving water is just soothing, which are beyond our imagination. When we see this seductive scene, our mind gets mesmerized by it.

It teaches us that no matter how many problems we face in life, we should not panic. If for some reason you fall, it should be like a waterfall, which does not lose its beauty even after falling from such a height. It is not that if there is a loss in business, then take the money of the country and run away abroad. This will make the circumstances even more hostile, even your own identity will be lost. You will have to hide yourself from your friends and relatives, you will be separated from all your close ones and its bite will make you suffer till life.

In such a situation, take help from the country, share information about your financial situation to the country and assure that you will come back to the same situation in the near future. Always keep in mind that your pride in the country and abroad are not just because of your wealth. You have earned it by doing a lot of work, which you should not waste in vain.  Read More…

Lemongrass; Repository of Properties

Lemongrass is a natural herb and appears like a common grass. As the name suggests, lemongrass has the fragrance of lemon but it is milder and sweeter in taste. Lemongrass is an herb that people can use to make nutritious tea. It protects us from many diseases. It can help us stop the growth of some bacteria.

Lemongrass also contains substances that relieve pain and inflammation, reduce fever and improve blood sugar and cholesterol levels. It is packed with antioxidants that help in detoxing and cleansing you from within. Lemongrass relieves headache and migraine caused by discomfort due to its analgesic properties.

It helps in digesting food. It is also known to limit absorption of cholesterol from the intestines, thus promoting overall heart health. Its tea is a great option for your weight loss diet plan as it helps to increase your metabolism and helps in burning more calories. It has a great source of vitamins A and C which are essential nutrients for beautiful skin and hair. Read More…

Ficus Religiosa Abode of God

Ficus Religiosa is sacred in Indian tradition, and is also called the Deva tree. It is also known as Bodhi tree. In Buddhism, this is important because Buddha attained enlightenment under the Bodhi tree and is revered in various cultures. At its root is Brihama, Vishnu in the middle and Lord Shiva in the back is believed to be the abode, that’s why that’s why it is worshiped. Burning or cutting of this tree is prohibited in North India, although its wood has special significance in worship.

Peepal tree provides oxygen round the clock and purifies the surrounding environment. In traditional medicine, it is beneficial in treating many types of disorders like asthma, dysentery, arthritis, boils and pimples etc. Leaves, bark, and fiber are used for fodder, dye, tanning, and milk to seal something.

Peepal trees give us shade and shelter as well as a pure atmosphere, reflecting their unique aesthetic and cultural significance. Let us pledge to revive our surroundings with peepal trees. They can be planted in every area where open areas are available. Can be placed on both sides of the national highways so that the passengers can get accommodation. My Profile…

Herbs For Your Garden

India is home to a wide variety of plant species. Some plant species play a very important role in human life and are used directly and indirectly due to medicinal properties. We in India are blessed with such herb plants.

1. Aloe Vera:

Aloe Vera, which does not require much introduction, is a commonly found plant in every household and neighborhood. Its gel which is used in many medicines and a lot of beauty and facial products is derived from its leaves. This is now a very popular plant above all. One of the most crucial elements found in aloe vera gel is a complex carbohydrate known as acemannan. It allows nutrients to reach the cells, nourish them and at the same time relieve them of toxins.

2. Ashwagandha:

Ashwagandha is a highly attractive medicinal herb and is an ayurvedic herb helpful in natural healing. Root and fruit are the most important parts in the plant and their extracts are used in medicinal applications. Its extract is mainly used for relieving stress and depression. Apart from this, these extracts also help in curing diseases like arthritis, hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, maintaining blood sugar levels, and cholesterol levels.

3. Carom:

Carom seeds also known as Ajwain. These seeds are added in almost every Indian curry recipe. Ajwain seeds do possess a strong aroma which not only adds up to the flavor of the food but also adds up to many health benefits. It gives instant relief from acidity and indigestion. This also helps in dealing with respiratory ailments like asthma and bronchitis. It provides great help in getting rid of dirt from the skin.

4. Curry Leaves:

Curry leaves are used as spices and flavor enhancing agents in almost all Indian foods. Every part of the plant: leaves, roots and bark are used extensively for various medicinal applications. But curry leaves are quite famous due to their high nutritional benefits. Curry leaves are a great source of high fiber content, which reduce weight and reduce hair loss.

5. Fenugreek:

Fenugreek is gaining a lot of popularity worldwide. The popular herb is not only a common kitchen spice, but is also most commonly used in soaps and shampoos. This herb is also rich in nutrients which are used in curing diseases like diabetes, constipation, blood sugar levels, testosterone, and male libido. Ripe or boiled seeds work for weight loss and also relieves muscle aches.

6. Giloy:

Giloy is an herb called the root of immortality in Ayurveda. Due to its extremely rich medicinal properties, it has been used as medicines. It is quite simple and easy to grow at your home. It is useful for our immunity, chronic fever, digestion, diabetes, reduces stress and anxiety, arthritis, reduces asthmatic symptoms and boost our vision. Giloy is also known for its anti-inflammatory benefits.

7 Khus:

Khus plants or popularly knows as Khus grass is widely found in plains and hilly areas of India.The roots is the most important part of this plant. Oils of Khus roots are used in perfumes and soaps. The Khus plants have high medicinal properties and help prevent Jaundice, Diuretic, Arthritis, Maintains Blood sugar levels and also boosts blood circulation and immunity levels.

8) Sage:

Sage is a highly beneficial medicinal herb of the peppermint family. This small herb has some strong aromatic appearance. Its leaves serve as excellent skin and hair care. By boiling sage leaves in water and washing hair, not only your hair grows but also becomes shiny. Burning of dried sage leaves is commonly practiced in India to improve air quality, kill bacteria. Sage also contains small amounts of magnesium, zinc, copper and vitamins A, C and E.

9 Spearmint:

Peppermint is known by many names such as Mackerel Mint, Garden Mint, and Lamb Peppermint famous as “the world’s oldest medicine”. The leaves of these plants are rich in vitamins, and manganese and are popular in summer drinks, tea, and chutneys across India.  Its oil, which is known as menthol, comes with a host of health and beauty benefits, right from soothing an upset stomach and treating cold to relieving stress and skin irritation. No wonder in the ancient times it was used as an herbal medicine across various cultures.

10. Tulsi:

One of the most common plants widely found in the homes of many Indians. This plant is considered sacred and often feeds you basil leaves. In this way it is applied to bring good luck and comfort in the house. It is used in herbal teas, beauty products and is widely used to fight indigestion, diabetes, fever, cold, cough and bronchitis. It can reduce the frequency of coughing and can soothe throat soreness and irritation. The essential oils found in tulsi may help manage blood pressure levels too. My Profile…

Time And Money

How is money and time related? Money can accumulate, while time cannot accumulate; it is either wasted or spent. You can hold the money, but time slips by hand like sand. We can earn it again by spending money, but once the time is out, it never comes.

Time is like a gun fired bullet, which, once fired, will hit the target or not; But does not return. Similarly, once the time is out, it never comes back. Therefore, time should always be utilized. Wealth is just the opposite, if accidental loss, theft or loss of money due to temptation, then we can recover from our hard work.

Money and time are resources but time is uncertain and is a more valuable resource. We can make more money. We cannot buy time, although we can avoid wasting time in vain. But we can buy other people’s time for different services, so we may have more time to do other work. My Profile…

Overcome The Difficulties

Many of us are afraid to try and run away from difficulties due to pessimistic thinking. While the solution to the problem may be very close to us. Problems can cause anxiety, many people will try to neglect to deal with difficult issues in their lives. Avoiding your problems is not a solution, it will bounce back and a small problem can become a major problem over time.

Running away from the problem gives you a temporary feeling of comfort. Best solution to it is facing and working through difficulties, that’s what makes you strong. Running away from any problem, only increases the distance from the solution.

Your life will become more peaceful by less responding to negative people. When your life is stressful then do something to lift your spirits. You may change the environment of your house, take a change of place, go for drive or have meetings with your friends. My Profile…

Ultimate Peace

It was a very pleasant morning. Snow was shining in the sun on the mountain peaks. It was my heartiest desire to travel to the snow covered mountains once in life, which now succeeded in the last phase of life. I set out on the final journey of my dreams through the icy paths. How far I reached here, I was unaware. There was snow all around.

There was a feeling that the legs were moving on their own but the body was shivering, there was no resting place, and I piled on the same ice. My body was relaxed, eyes closed. But it seemed that I had been going through long shores and dark scenes, I had been there hundreds of times. My memory was relaxed. I was also craving to take a nap.

I can tell that I had come to the end, it was not common here, and however, I felt peace, ultimate peace. A huge light beam appeared towards me and its bright light blinded my vision this time as the end. The wind felt great on my face and I was blowing like a toy in the air. Read More…

The Mask, Sentinels of Covid-19

Covid-19 strikes on humanity,

Make a shield cancel every attack of Covid,

Our friendly our guardian,

The spear of Covid can’t pierce it,

Covid distanced society,

But made him our friend,

Help us on every steps,

Without which no longer life,

Equally with rich or poor,

Comparison never pleases him,

Every time I looked at him,

He always supported me,

Thank a lot Oh, my friend,

Supported when all stepped aside,

How much should I praise you?

The human will remain indebted to you,

He got angry after hearing this,

Then he narrated this line,

You made me little by saying this,

I am just your mask. My Profile…

Be Thankful Not Ungrateful

Once upon a time, a boy jumped into the river and tried to commit suicide. Incidentally, a saint arrived there and took the boy out of the river. The saint sent him home after convincing him and the saint went on his way.

After a few months the saint was passing the city. Suddenly the boy appeared to the saint, bent down and touched the saint’s feet. The saint was happy, discussed about his life. Both were feeling the pleasant moments at that time. The saint blessed him for happy life and went ahead on his way.

Time passed and the same saint came to that city. The boy saw the saint coming from the front, he tried to change the way but the saint called him. He asked, “How are you now and what are you doing?” This time the boy became angry and shouted at the saint, “Why didn’t you let me die that day, I am not followed again and again.” The saint could not speak anything and proceeded on the way. Read More…

Marriage A Social Responsibility

In our society, getting married is the most important thing. Marital life brings with it a lot of responsibility and it also changes your lifestyle. It makes you feel selfless because you have to think about the welfare of the wife all the time. However, marriage is also the best part of being in life.

Marriage is a bond between two people, two families, two societies, two cultures, which should be handled with care, understanding, trust and love. Lack of faith and love in it can become a trap for both and one may have to spend entire life in unnecessary complications.

However, it is expected that a wife should perform all household responsibilities and a husband should take care of financial matters, but times are changing and there is no defined role. If both partners are professionals and work to earn a livelihood, they should discuss their role before getting married, so that no controversy ever arises after marriage. Read More…

Marriage A Dream

When teenagers undergo an important developmental phase in life; then it is common to dream for the future life. All teenagers, moving forward to their life are very eager for marriage, whereas they are not prepared for this physically or mentally. They take it as a beautiful gift for life but are not able to handle the responsibilities of married life.

To dream of a marriage signifies commitment. You are undergoing an important developmental phase in your life. The dream may also represent the unification of formerly separate or opposite aspects of yourself. In particular, it is the union of masculine or feminine aspects of yourself.

Due to low thinking, those who marry early and depend on their parents for their expenses. In this way two lives get spoiled. Because it happens either at the request of parents, or at the adulation of friends. In such a marriage, the wife and husband may lack maturity and rationality. Let them understand the meaning of their responsibility and achieve their desired goals. Read More…

Ideology of Life

A man should not make more wishes; But one should not give up desires altogether. Similarly, your earned money should be consumed slowly. To beautify a man, there should be eight guns, they are – intelligence, beautiful character, self-control, scriptural study, courage, fidelity, charity and gratitude.

Leave nothing on tomorrow, do tomorrow’s work today, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. One should try every moment for learning and every particle for money. Time should not be wasted in vain, money cannot be obtained by destroying time and resources. A gentle person should not grieve the time spent and should not bother for the future.

A gentleman is like a coconut, he looks hard on the outside, but is very gentle by nature. Others look like bad fruits seems to be good only from outside. The sun remains red at the time of rising and even at dawn, the truth is great men remain equal in happiness and sorrow. Read More…

The Procedure

My boss always tried to find fault. In every work he commented, you did not follow the procedure. I was on fire crew duty at the time. We received a call from a gentleman who said that there was a fire in the grass near the plane parking. We reached the spot and the fire was extinguished. There was no loss of life and property.

My boss was also present there, he told me that I did not follow the procedure. Everyone will be aware that the prescribed procedures are for practice only and not for emergencies. Apart from my boss, everyone was praising for the work done by our team; because we had prevented a major disaster by reaching on time.

A few days later, we received a call from the boss’s house at around nine o’clock in the night that his house had caught fire. By the time we reached the spot with our equipment, there was a lot of crowd. After reaching at the spot, I followed the full prescribed procedure which lasted for 30 minutes; by that time, the fire had destroyed every household item kept in the house. He asked me to meet him at his office the next day.

Next morning I went to his office. Then he started saying that all the processes needed to be conducted yesterday itself; When my house was on fire. I responded politely; Sir, all emergencies are equal for us and should be dealt with in the best and least possible process and not with undue delay. Because losses from fire are national losses. Read More…

Greed Can’t Be Fulfilled

You can fulfill someone’s need, but cannot fulfill his greed. Because needs have their limits, but greed is endless. When someone is tempted, it seems that he is standing at the end of life. It snatches one’s humility, his peace of mind and even hunger and thirst.

A greedy man does not recognize good and evil. He remains behind only to prove his selfishness. He can go to any extent that is beyond you and our mind. Where there is greed, there is a loss of faith. Greed is not only about money but greed for power, fame, hoarding, comparison, entitlement, excess spending, etc.

Greed is essential to control, because uncontrolled greed destroys the soul of humanity, ruining the entire society. The victory of greed over compassion can eventually lead to the downfall of our civilization. The root cause of greed is the thought of separating ourselves from others which defines what we need. Read More…

Threads of Love

Whether there is a relationship between two people in the society or between humans and God, there is a bond of relationship that binds everyone. Sometimes some relationships automatically grow in our hearts like evergreen plants and sometimes they fade despite caring for them throughout life.

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In these relationships there is a relation of husband and wife. No matter how manly he is, wives love him very much. Whether it be beatings, earns or not, does not give time in the house, but there is some strange dilemma that despite all these evils, she cannot stay away from him even for a day, despite all these qualities she loves him. She doesn’t know herself, on whom she loves, but there are some cords that bind this relationship.

If he comes home a little late, she gets upset, even if he has a headache, she lifts the sky over her head. Often it can be painful to walk on an unknown path, because the fear of being misled at every step, the fear of a thief persists every moment. Read More…

Changing Values of Relationships

Money is not the only thing in the world, relationships are priceless. Whatever the relationship is, if we do not live in it realistically, then these relationships also seem meaningless. Over time, the brothers also left together and they had full property rights. It was not his fault, it was my fault, that love of mine, my attachment to him, my trust that I used to do more than myself.

I know that I was not the only one who felt that way, but there were many more. The thing you wish for, the thing you dreamed about was very close to you, but you cannot call them your own. Whatever the reason, this incident shook me, but this emptiness was not always there.

For a year I was in a lot of grief, but once again I got up and tried with all my strength that I could achieve it this time. And my hard work came with positive feedback in achieving my goal. I had my house built. Although I had to work hard for five years and determination for this task. Read More…

A Fundamental Right: Expression of Idea

Do you know how it feels when everything is around you and you don’t have hand on that. You can’t touch can’t feel it. The restlessness that makes you impatient. It’s really frustrating right?

Same thing happened with Retired Naval Officer in Mumbai, Maharashtra. He had only shared a message came to him on Whats App. This has became a serious crime and who was attacked by alledgedly by Shiv Sena Workers near to his home and not felt necessary to take action by Mumbai Police.

They just feel this one right? No, it is not like that, they are feeling it, that feeling belongs to them, it is inside them. And your feelings are not imaginary. These are the things they are going through. Then do not take it lightly. Read More…

Decide To Be A Yogi or A Patient

Today we all are living a very busy life, so it becomes very necessary for us to maintain our health with our professional requirements. It helps us a lot in our old age.

You have to decide yourself, want to be in your old age “Yogi” or live life of a “Patient”. If you will be “Yogi” then you will be loved by everyone, but you choose the second one, then everyone seems to neglect you, despite your contribution to your family.

So, be ready for better and proud evening of your life and start living life with little change in lifestyle habits.

Firstly, your body acts what you think, so keep your attitude on the positive thinking.

Secondly, give vegetables an indispensable place in your life and eat them raw or boiled such as cabbage, carrots, tomatoes, grapes, and leafy greens.

A “Meal Ideal” will help you manage your weight, keep you cool, maintain your focus on your work.

You must have a sound sleep at night, for a healthy body as well as mind. You must go for small exercises and “Yoga” and “Meditation”. Pay attention to your sense of satisfaction, relaxation, tension, exhilaration, and fatigue. Read More…

A Letter From Mother

It was morning, after a walk outside, I came back home. It was a long time that nobody’s letter was received nor did anyone come.

I was overcome; but hearing of calling to myself, I again proceeded towards the gate. By that time he had reached the gate, and, holding a letter in his hand. It has now been confirmed that he was addressing me.

With strong curiosity, I opened the envelope, which was written with a fairly close hand. The letter was from my mother. My children, “It doesn’t matter how far you are or how old we are both. You will always be in my heart, my love will be in a thousand different forms, yet it will never change.”

Tearful stream came out of my eyes and I could not read the letter further. The mind was filled with self-guilt and was lost in the pleasant memories of Mother’s lap. Read More…

Health Benefits of Moringa

Moringa is a plant of northern India that can also grow in other places like Asia and Africa. The leaves, flowers, seeds, and roots of this plant are used as medicines for centuries.

Its leaves have vitamin C and potassium. It also has calcium, protein, iron, and amino acids, which help your body heal and build muscle. It is full of substances that can protect cells from damage and may boost your immune system.

It’s traditionally been used as a remedy for Diabetes, Long-lasting inflammation, Bacterial, viral, and fungal infections, Joint pain, Heart health and Cancer. It strengthens our bones. Read More…

Decoration of Language

Just like a woman has a beauty conferred by nature. She does not need any type of jewelry. But it can enhance her beauty more.

Similarly, language can also be improved. Figurative language uses words or expressions to convey a meaning that is different from the literal interpretation. The use of embellishments can convey the expression of language more effectively. 

A figure of speech is a way of saying something other than a normal way. Figurative language is a language using figures of speech. A simile is a comparison used to attract the reader’s attention and describe something in descriptive terms. Read More…

Aware of Fake Friend that Hugs You

I had joined the job in 1987. A clever man entered in our life to assist my family in my absence.  He helped my family by lending money at 24 percent compounded interest. He takes advantage of other people for his own gain. He was very selfish and unethical. This type of people helps someone only for self gain; this person only does nice things to make themselves look good in the eyes of others, but doesn’t actually care about the well-being of the people he is helping.

I came home after one year. The man called me at his home and was very pleased to inform me that how he has looked after my family in my absence. I shocked when I had seen the record. The gentlemen had doubled the amount what he had lent to my family. 

I paid his principal along with interest and asked him not show this type of favour in future. Thus I had spent all the money that I brought along with me for some betterment of my family. I asked my family to curtail their expenditure in place of borrowing money from these types of people. Read More…